Onset / developmental pattern
Both are personality disorders with a pervasive, longstanding pattern traceable to early adulthood.
Duration / course
Both are stable, enduring patterns.
Associated features
Histrionic PD features rapidly shifting, shallow emotion and impressionistic speech; narcissistic PD features a grandiose sense of self-importance, need for excessive admiration, and lack of empathy.
Functional impairment
Both strain relationships, though for different reasons -- perceived superficiality and intensity in histrionic PD, versus entitlement and lack of empathy in narcissistic PD.
Rule-outs / exclusions
If attention-seeking is not accompanied by grandiosity or a fragile, inflated self-image, histrionic PD is favored; if grandiosity and need for admiration tied to self-image are central, narcissistic PD is favored.
The differential question
Assessing whether the core driver is a general need to be noticed and emotionally expressive (histrionic) versus a specific need for admiration tied to a grandiose self-concept (narcissistic) is central.
Common student confusion
Both can appear self-centered from the outside, making the distinct underlying psychological driver easy to conflate without careful assessment.
Case clues
A person who dramatically recounts emotional stories and feels uncomfortable when attention shifts elsewhere fits histrionic PD; a person who expects special treatment, lacks empathy, and reacts to criticism with disproportionate anger fits narcissistic PD.
Clarifying questions to ask
- Is the person's self-image grandiose, or is the primary concern being noticed and emotionally engaged with?
- How does the person respond to criticism -- disproportionate anger/entitlement, or general emotional intensity?
- Is empathy for others notably reduced?
Read each disorder in full
Personality Disorders
A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention-seeking, including discomfort when not the center of attention, rapidly shifting and shallow emotional expression, and a tendency to view relationships as more intimate than they actually are.
Personality Disorders
A pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration, and lack of empathy, present since early adulthood across a variety of contexts.
Try a related question →